Problems with relationship by Tikara Da Silva.
Any person who has been in what we call ” a serious relationship” today, know that struggles are bound to appear,
but how many of us can say that a good relationship had to end because of one or other appearing issue?
how many of us can vow that the love was present, but the trust wasn’t?
The problems that we face today are somewhat different to those of our parents or grandparents, not to say that some of these issues weren’t there, but they have definitely be multiplied.
1. COMMUNICATION IS OFTEN ABANDONED.
Issues that appear in a relationship are often never spoken about in the moments that they appear,
Partners usually avoid a argument, leaving the issues to lay above the surface.
2. ARGUMENTS ARE SEEN AS DEAL BREAKERS .
Many of us tend to have the unrealistic expectations that two people who love eachother should never argue,
Although in books and the fairy tales of love we often read this may be possible.
In reality, it’s the furtherest thing from the truth.
You are bringing together two people who grew up differently, in different environments, have different issues, and have different view points of the world, conflict is bound to appear.
3. SOCIAL MEDIA.
social media has a bigger role to play in our relationships than what we often realise.
Social media sets alot of unrealistic standards in relationships because of the fact that many social media influencers only show the best part of their lives,
Whether it be there partner buying them flowers or watches unexpectedly , we often look to our partners questioning their love and loyalty
4. WE GIVE UP TO EASILY
Not many people are willing to fight for the partners they have in their life’s, when the relationship starts to get a bit to much to handle we make a break for it.
Why would we punish ourselves trying to save a relationship that gets to difficult?
Why would we put ourselves in that position if finding someone new to start over with is just at the click of our fingers?
Finding someone new has never been easier than it is today.
loyalty in today’s world is rare,
Many people of today feel the need to set boundaries, to explain to their partners what they consider to be loyalty and what is going too far,
People do not understand the damaged they inflict by being unloyal to a good partner.
6. ONE MAN PARTY.
How many people in relationships today can say that they alone are pulling the weight of their relationship?
In many relationships today one partner is all its taking in keeping the relationship above water. Leaving the working partner feeling drained, while the other partner sits back and demands more and more and more.
Trust is a continuous issue in many relationships of today.
More often than not partners do not trust their partners because of past events,
Or it may be the trust becomes an issue because of one partners issues before the relationship.
These are 7 problems that are most likely deal breakers in relationships of today